He said that he did it just to get back at me and hurt me for talking to men online and it was all my fault!
We were just having a laugh!
Despite his telling me to stop talking to men online (Facebook friends) I then started talking to an American friend who made me laugh, knew that I was married and never ever once did we have any sexual desire or talk about it!
My ex got into a relationship within 2 weeks after a breakup. What should I do?
I am such a fukkin idiot!
My husband found everything on my laptop (which I think secretly deep down was hoping that would just to get me out of a situation where I had no idea what to do!)
Which it was doing until I installed Instagram and saw his account?
Why do gun owners feel the need to defend themselves with deadly weapons? Can they not just talk things out like civilized people do?
The heartbreak and loss that I feel now literally has destroyed my entire world!
At that point I just wanted any attention that I could get from my husband!
He point blank refused so that told me that she was on his Instagram!
Hello,hope y'all doin good, i came to Quora to share my strange story , a very weird one , a story when luck smiled at me ,maybe u will enjoy it , let's begin,have fun...
A year ago ,I was a real porn addicted(btw I was 18) ,but never had sex before, I don't have a gf I didn't try to find one even ,always thinking to go to find a sex worker but then I just don't , everyday watching different bodies getting fucked and everyday enjoying.
One day, I was watching porn, a big ass lady with big boobs ,just after seeing her the image of my female cousin poped in my mind, (let's introduce her : she's 35 years old , very big ass , nice boobs ,not very big but nice,always wearing tight clothes , she's divorced ) and I thought of me fucking her ,I never had sexual desires for her but now I do days went by and when I met her I was so horny ,I couldn't stay with the family cz my penis was clearly erected , I realized this is my first time I get horny for one of my family ,it not illegal in my country.well to make a long story short( if u want details just text me I will tell u 😊),I decided to give her signs that I want to fuck her,finally I decided to have sex and with my cousin , I thought it is the best beggining for me, i started touching her when I came across her in a narrow place , make her feel my hard cock when we hug , I thought it will hard and I will be ashamed but no , I felt nothing and she said nothing , probably she thought it was by mistake,anyways, I decided then to talk with her about sex, waited for her to be alone in a room and talk with her, I confessed everything about me watching porn and addicted..etc,she said it's normal and u are growing up and u must have sex,well at that time I was like whaaat????? Well I didn't control myself and asked her for sex ( horny like I Ve never been before) she said that she will think Abt it ,2 weeka went by then she called me ,telling that she reserved a room in a hotel and we meet tonight ,we met,and bruuhh, sex is great , I mean, I had to find a pirstitue ,what I was waiting for to have such a feeling ????, I will never forget that night, I started kissing her she was kissing hard ,she misses sex so bad , she sucked my dick and swallowed my semen ,I felt I'm in a dream , then when fucked ,her ass was very big and the anus was open ,didn't struggle to get my hard cock inside it , she was obviously missing sex , she was shouting ,fuck me yh fuck me , I go fast after every word until I cum , we did that 3 times , then we went to her pussy , using condoms I fucked her so hard the moans were higher , everything was perfect ,in the end I asked her to lick her body , licked pussy ,ass, boobs,then she sucked my cock until we sleeped ,all I know that she was dirty ,well before even having sex with her I knew she is an open minded woman , and a woman that looks that she donesnt know anything , but she knows everything, but never expected having sex with her ,well she was horny and that helped...but no one of us regretted that sex ever..
We still have sex from time to time ,and I started having sex with sex workers , joining threesomes..etc
If u want pics of her text me.
At that point I should have told my husband but like a fucking idiot I carried on talking to him still trying to brush off the ugly dick pic and trying to bring it back down to the old times when we were just friends!
He kept denying it because he thought that he could carry on seeing her behind my back if I didn't know about her!
Jealousy made me feel wanted loved by him!
Hi everybody! I have been looking at posts on narcs and narc abuse on here and if has really helped me out a lot. I am currently struggling with my situation and need some advice/support.
I met a narc last year, everything seemed to good to be true. Love bombing, always texting calling and taking me on dates. Everything changed when someone warned me about him out in public in front of him and who he is. This caused a conflict with us and the love bombing seized.
he would tell me that everything is okay and i can come and talk. He would set a time limit on me and kick me out after that.
he would then text me like everything was fine and we hung out again and after that he completely ghosted me for one week. He came back and texted me a week later laughing about the ghosting and acting like nothing had happened.
he continued to text me ( not like in the beginning) make plans with me, then on the day of the plans he would just ghost me. One day he would act interested the next silence.
i contacted him a month later and he acted like nothing happened. He was on a vacation and sent me a picture of another woman ( someone he allegedly met on the trip) to strike a reaction but i never gave him one. After the trip he came to my place and was extremely rude, accusing me of going on dates with a bunch of men. The next day he accused me of being an alcoholic and that he wanted nothing to do with me but said well maybe we can be "friends" then ghosted me
i assumed at this point it was over and i would never hear from him again. He contacted me on the holiday a month later acting like everything was great. We ended up hanging out a month or so later and when we hung out it went well, i thought things were going in the right direction.
after we hung out.. silence. I would try to text him and if he replied it would be very short then he just stopped replying. He ghosted me for almost three months. I thought he was done this time and of course he popped up again like nothing happened. At this point i was getting sick of if so i questioned him as to why he dissapeared and always does this. Of course he had some sob story about a injury and family member dying of cancer. I felt pity for him and he gave me an apology.. so i took him back stupidly.
things seemed to be going smooth for a couple months, of course until his family member died and his injury got better he never contacted me and was distant. Menawhile, i was there for him during the difficult time for him. He lied to me about the funeral and never wanted to chat. I was chasing him and he would always claim nothing was wrong but when i said i thought he used me when he was down he could not handle it and would always tell me he didnt care and to go away. I would get so upset i would try texting him to work it out he would barelt respond and if he did he would not be nice about it.
we did hang out a couple times after that, he would ignore me after. One day i was like hey i think you are seeing someone else, and i was like well ixam seeing someone so no problem if you are he said " buy bye good luck with your new guy stop contacting me" i was devastated and tried to get into contact with him for weeks then i just gave up and accepted it was over. He ended up contacting me a month later acting like everything was fine. He wanted to go out and have drinks i told him i would. He and i both seemed to have a great time. He ends up ignoring me again. I kept texting him trying to figure out what was wrong. He kept saying everything was fine and i said ok can we hang out again? He said maybe i was like why? He just kept saying maybe …
our last conversation we had… i said what is wrong ? He said nothing is wrong everything is fine. I asked him why he keeps saying maybe. He said " maybe but i dont want to see you right now" i said why? He saix " im just not feeling it, if i wanted to date i would" i said why did you contact me less then a week ago wanting to go out? He said i didnt.. even though he did. So i said should i just move on or what? He said whatever you want to do. So i said that he was really confusing me and asked him if he had anything more to say before i move on? My messages were turning green so i panicked he blocked me and reacted irrationally. I said " omg did you block me? My messages are not going through. Even texted him on my work phone asking what was up. And called him twice ( please dont judge me i know it is pathetic i never was this type of girl before him) so he replied and said " Ok I'll block you now" then immedietly blocked me. He has never blocked me before since I have met him he will just ghost. Is this ths final discard aka " grand finale? Did i just push him too far?
this has upset me so much its hard to even function.
My husband thought that we were getting to close (despite never having mentioned sex or leaving my husband) so he blocked him from all of my social media!
I live in southern England and I don't do the north!
I had absolutely no idea how to handle the situation so I tried to brush it off and made a joke out of it!
Why do men like to suck another man’s dick?
If she hadn't have fukked him off then he admitted that he probably would have seen her again!
I instinctively knew that he had betrayed me and I could feel it somehow!
Last laugh is that she said from the moment she met him she knew he wasn't her type and also said that he was shit in bed! 😂😂
Doctors Say You Might Be Eating Way Too Much Salt — Here’s How To Tell - BuzzFeed
Firstly…what complete and utter bullshit! If he did it just to hurt me then when he got back from trying to get jiggy with some sad ugly fuck that he met on Facebook dating he would have told me! That would have hurt me and it would have proven to me that he actually did it for that reason! Telling me that I'm paranoid and that he hadn't betrayed with anyone me told me that he did it because he wanted to!
The absolutely hilarious icing on the cake is despite her not being drop dead gorgeous as I'd imagined the whole time, but when I actually found her and saw her picture It made me feel like a super model!
His cover was blown when I asked him to install the Instagram app (he thought that by deleting the app and reinstalling it when he wanted to send or receive messages) would cover his ass!
What are the pros and cons of arranged marriages?
One of them is telling porkies and my husband says that he is telling the truth which I doubt very much!
It absolutely broke his heart and he said that I was going behind his back by talking to these guys and not telling him.
He gave me everything that I needed to know when I found out that he was on Instagram!
Cher’s son Elijah Blue Allman hospitalized after drug overdose: report - Page Six
I used to have the most loyal..trustworthy and loving husband in the world until I totally fukked everything up!
Then he tells me that he had always been in love with me and wanted me to leave my husband and go and live with him up north!?
I thought that it was fair enough as I didn't want my husband worrying about him!
Can you show pictures of your penis, big or small?
HOW THE ACTUAL FUCK DID IT ESCALATE TO THAT!?
Also it made me feel like he was fighting for me (not that he would ever have to) and he was showing me some attention (even though it was the wrong kind of attention!)
Why is it always me!?
Why do I get bored with porn so quickly? I can watch maybe half a video (5 mins max) and then get bored and do something else. I don't watch porn often, just a teenager. 17.
After many long arguments and endless efforts by me questioning him about her (which he gave me absolutely no information on except her name, he finally admitted it to because she told him that he wasn't her type and wasn't interested in seeing him again!)
Her account of events are totally different to what my husband told me but despite everything she has absolutely no blame in the situation!
I was absolutely over the moon that she was the only one who answered his dating messages!
Why does a straight man like anal penetration?
Telling me that he was going out for a few drinks with his mate but at 07.30am I couldn't get hold of him!
I asked him to install the app in front of me which he did but he was sweating like a nun in a porn shop when I asked him to give me his phone!
What a dumbass!
What does it mean when you dream that your mother died?
I went on there solely to try and find the woman and when I asked him about having an Instagram account he denied it despite me showing him his account!
I have lost the air that keeps me breathing!
We were FRIENDS!!
Why don't people like Nickelback?
I was talking to a couple of guys online because I felt unloved and neglected by my husband.
One of the guys was someone that I knew from 15yrs ago and we were good friends!
Never anything sexual and I had absolutely no intention of leaving my husband for any of them at all!
How many women have accidentally pooped their pants and became turned on afterwards?
I refused and said that he should have given it to me when I asked as now I know he's deleted any evidence!
I nearly fell off my chair! 😳😳
After reminiscing about the past he told me that he had always been in love with me and then sent me a dick pic!
Why doesn't California have the tools, people, means to put out these fires even though they know there will be fires every year?
How did it go from reminiscing about 40yrs ago as good friends to then getting a picture of his fukkin takle!?
Where the fuck did that come from!?
10 minutes later he gave me his phone and said here you are I've got nothing to hide!
A year down the line my loyal, faithful and trustworthy husband cheated on me with the ugliest pig that you could ever fukk!
Absolutely wrong fukkin move dumbass!
Of course I messaged her and she actually answered me!
I didn't see it as cheating and I didn't know how much that it would hurt my husband!
That night when he was asleep I checked his Instagram and he had moved her to the “don't accept any notifications from this person”
If I could turn back the hands of time then I would in a heartbeat!
At that point I should have told him to fukk off and block him on all my social media..why I didn't I still can't explain to this day! It's like I was still just seeing the lonely sad 16yr old that I felt sorry for and still couldn't believe that he had sent me a picture of his ugly dick!
My husband then had the cheek to ask me why I hadn't defended him when she said that!
I thought that I could handle the situation by trying to take it down a notch and remind him that we were just good friends.. but obviously I couldn't and it didn't happen!
He was working hard and long hours or me and our children
I then found out her name which he had tried so hard to keep me from finding out and now I know why!!
Of course he denied everything but when you have been married to someone for over 20yrs you instinctively know when they are bullshitting you!
Needles to say that I've screenshot all of her messages! 😂😂😂
Any accent above London is a no go for me!
Why would she need to lie about anything?
